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- June 11, 1990: The End of Another Cold War
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- <history>
- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1990
- June 11, 1990 Scott Turow:Making Crime Pay
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- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- NATION, Page 21
- The End of Another Cold War
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- <body>
- <p>This time, Raisa Gorbachev played the gracious guest, while
- Barbara Bush gave the speech of her life at Wellesley
- </p>
- <p> During the Reagan years, it seemed as if the American and
- Soviet First Ladies had decided to continue the superpower
- rivalry by other means. Raisa Gorbachev and Nancy Reagan's
- every tea, luncheon and photo op was another skirmish in their
- mutual assured destruction pact, a frost-filled sideshow of
- haute-to-haute combat. Reagan complained that Gorbachev
- lectured her mercilessly on Marx and missiles, compared the
- White House to a museum, and was given to an imperious snapping
- of her fingers to summon the KGB to fetch a chair for her.
- After one White House dinner where Raisa used up all the
- available air in the room, Nancy snapped, "Who does that dame
- think she is?"
- </p>
- <p> She thought she was the glasnost equivalent of Nancy; no
- continent the two occupied at the same time seemed big enough.
- By comparison, last week's distaff summit was a close encounter
- of a gentler kind, and a small, makeshift stage at Wellesley
- College was more than space enough for both. This was Barbara
- Bush's coming of age as First Lady, her riposte to student
- complaints that she did not reflect "the self-affirming
- qualities of a Wellesley graduate." The Soviet First Lady
- confined herself to predictable Kremlin-speak about
- perestroika, leaving the ovations for her hostess.
- </p>
- <p> With the do-or-die intensity of her husband at the
- Republican National Convention when he was trailing in the
- polls, Barbara, who was once so shy she cried over having to
- speak to the Houston Garden Club, delivered the speech of her
- life. She admonished the audience to find something bigger than
- themselves to believe in, to share laughter, find joy in life
- and cherish, above all, human connections. The loudest cheer
- came when she delivered the predictable but nonetheless
- effective kicker: "Somewhere out in this audience may even be
- someone who will one day follow in my footsteps, and preside
- over the White House as the President's spouse. I wish him
- well."
- </p>
- <p> After that, normalizing the East-West First Lady
- relationship was easy. Bush had already conceded victory to
- Gorbachev in the shopping, weight and wardrobe wars. Years of
- sitting at fund-raising dinners have taught her how to look
- fascinated by a lecture on multiple warheads, all the while
- fantasizing, perhaps, about curling up with the latest murder
- mystery later on. When feigned interest fails, she employs
- another tactic. Says Rebecca Matlock, wife of the U.S.
- Ambassador to the Soviet Union: "Barbara knows how to change
- the subject when Mrs. Gorbachev begins, you know, talking like
- she does." For her part, Raisa helped things along by not
- kicking the First Dog when Millie plopped down on her foot at
- Thursday's White House tea, and made appropriate Russian cooing
- sounds instead. Of such courtesies is detente made. The
- official word after the opening meeting was that Raisa and
- Millie "had bonded."
- </p>
- <p> The breezy Bush presidency provided the right atmosphere for
- Gorbachev to tone down her glitzy image, mollifying the folks
- back home waiting in bread lines wearing RAISA NYET buttons on
- their nondesigner lapels. Instead of the three wardrobe changes
- a day of her 1987 visit, Gorbachev adopted a dare-to-be-frumpy
- look for her round of appearances at the Library of Congress,
- the Capital Children's Museum and the Lincoln bedroom. Although
- she could not resist adding glitter to Thursday's embassy lunch
- with such celebrities as Jane Fonda and Dizzy Gillespie--so
- famous for being famous they need no parenthetical explanation
- even in Moscow--she had the political sense to leave her
- gold American Express card at home, the $1,700 Cartier diamond
- earrings in the jewelry box and a sweep through swank
- department stores off the program.
- </p>
- <p> When the klieg lights of the summit have faded and the
- lambent glow of history takes over, Bush's response to the
- controversy set off by the Wellesley seniors may be what is
- remembered. While the First Lady's official cause is literacy,
- her unofficial mission is to convince a new generation of women
- that there is honor and a deep, sustaining pleasure in
- motherhood, that a life-style is no substitute for a life. "At
- the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed
- one more test, [not] winning one more verdict, or not closing
- one more deal," she said. "You will regret time not spent with
- a husband, a child, a friend or a parent." Wise words for
- everyone.
- </p>
- <p>By Margaret Carlson. Reported by Melissa Ludtke/Wellesley and
- Nancy Traver/Washington.
- </p>
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- </article>
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